Subject: Re: Random! [SPAM] Thu Apr 14, 2011 8:37 am
I think you just need to slow down and relax. That's all. You worry too much most of the time. You're hot headed. Then you go through the list of feats the other guy should have and panic if one of the boxes remains not ticked.
Yeah, ok he doesn't have everything, but he's got bonus points out there somewhere that compensate that. About marriage, I don't know how much are you into your culture. Because it's a bit different to mine. We have time to consider if it's a good idea or not and it works for me. I'd like to get married one day. Though I'd like to be sure I'm doing it with the right partner and got the means to know that. With your culture it's a bit different...
Though I agree with you on one thing - I wasn't wasting time on people who didn't match at all. Though we probably have different tolerance to those things
_Melissa. Knight
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Subject: Re: Random! [SPAM] Thu Apr 14, 2011 10:05 am
_Melissa. wrote:
You're right I worry but only because I have to, I team lead a lot and have to literally boss people around, be serious and make them work otherwise it is upsetting to see no effort put into work when everyone will get same result. The way am raised is, work work work, no time to play but sometimes I play lol but make sure am carefully being a hyper kid let out on the loose. Always need to be around the right acquaintances as that's what usually fucks me over. My friends usually have to tell me what to do vice versa, whether to go along with a certain guy and how to time manage. Otherwise we make mistakes but learn from them but there's a lot I didn't consult in friends with, until I knew the people who know what they talk about are usually right I accept when a friend is really optimistic or suggests hints not to get involved in it and do the same back when in need of help. Thanks.
I think that you rely too much on your friends to a degree you stopped realising the world around you. You may think that your bossing people around helps you do the work. Are you sure? How do you measure it? Maybe a bossy management style puts them off more than motivates them to work harder. Same with guys - you ask for an opinion, but do you have your own? After all you will be living with your chosen one some day, not your friends. Unless you want to go sharing It may be hard to get your own opinion at times and you will get burned a few times too (don't take it too hard) but then again you yourself said - we make mistakes but learn from them. It's your life, why let others live it?
_Melissa. Knight
Posts : 1501 Join date : 2010-09-20 Location : Micronesia
Subject: Re: Random! [SPAM] Tue May 03, 2011 12:26 am
Bekah wrote:
I heard that Osama Bin Laden and his son had been taken out. This surprised me because I didn't know they took the bins out on a bank holiday.
(It is May Bank holiday in the UK - just to clarify )
I heard it was bin Laden was taken out and one of Qaddafi's sons. They already killed Qadaffi's stepdaughter so I'm sure the man will have a vendetta for life.
Elois Noble
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